在我看来，问题在于你被灌输了这样的信念：你所做的事情至关重要。但这全是无稽之谈。

Poetry is perhaps what teaches us to nurture the charming illusion: how to be reborn out of ourselves over and over again, and use words to construct a better world, a fictitious world that enables us to sign a pact for a permanent and comprehensive peace ... with life.

赏析：父辈或兄长有良好的行为，子弟们未必学得很像，但是父辈或兄长有恶劣的行径，子弟们一学就会。所以，我们从中知道，父辈或兄长教导子弟，必须先要以身作则，做好表率，这比口头的说教管用。赏析：为人父母，要想教育好孩子，最好的方式就是言传身教，以身作则，正人先正己。勿以善小而不为，勿以恶小而为之。孩子良好的品行要从点滴的小事做起。

I don’t take no for an answer.