当你停下来思考你是否爱一个人时，你已经永远停止爱那个人了。
The moment you stop to think about whether you love someone, you've already stopped loving that person forever.
"La vida es una sola y hay que vivirla con intensidad, pero también con cuidado, porque no hay repetición."
我不相信来世。只有今生。好好把握它。
To be a woman is to be constantly negotiating between safety and desire.
"In the silence of the night, the writer finds the loudest voices."