你不是那些不了解或不关心你的人的看法。
You are not the opinion of somebody who doesn’t know you or care about you.
"A good book is an event in my life."
首先去取得你的事实，然后你才能够随心所欲的扭曲误解它。
You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of.
I don't like defining myself. I just am.