真正的朋友是能看到你眼中痛苦的人，而其他人都只相信你脸上的笑容。

"The great advantage of being a writer is that you can spy on people. You're there, listening to every word, but part of you is observing. Everything is useful to a writer, every scrap, even the longest and most boring of luncheon parties."

Life is measured by thought and action，not by time.

善不是出自内心的，不能保留；行为不能从自身辩明的，不能去做。善不是出自内心的，只能够勉强支撑一时，必然不能长久。所以也只能使伪善。