"The best way to forget something is to remember it."

What we have to remember is that we can still do anything. We can change our minds. We can start over.

译文：教育小孩子应当严厉对待，严厉的态度能平定孩子心中的浮躁之气；对待小人应当用敬待的态度，敬待的态度可以感化其心中的邪气，即使感化不了，也可使自己免于被其所害。

我害怕变得平庸。

I'm a failed poet. Maybe every novelist wants to write poetry first, finds he can't and then tries the short story which is the most demanding form after poetry. And failing at that, only then does he turn to the novel.

To love is to give without expecting anything in return.