The only way to deal with life is to accept it as it is.
应对生活的唯一方法是接受它的本来面目。
The first condition of understanding a foreign country is to smell it.
孔子说:“经常学习,不也喜悦吗?远方来了朋友,不也快乐吗?得不到理解而不怨恨,不也是君子吗?”