The mark of mediocrity is to look for precedent.
你在荒野中迈出的每一步都是更好地了解自己的一步。
哭着送去,哭着回来,回来后要努力于衣食之物的生产,资助祭祀,并用来孝顺双亲。 
Numbing the pain for a while will make it worse when you finally feel it.