道德不是关于如何使自己幸福的学说，而是关于如何使自己配得上幸福的学说。

I just go. I just go. I just keep going until it feels right to me,” Kobe says of his habits. “If something doesn’t feel right, I’m gonna stay there until I get it right. I just continue to keep pushing and pushing and pushing. That’s all I’ve known. That’s how my parents raised me. If you’re going to be focused on something, if you want to do something, you can’t, you can’t go about it in a half-assed way. You really gotta dedicate yourself to it, try to be the best at it. That’s the only way.

When you want to change things, you can't please everyone. If you do please everyone, you aren't making enough progress.

In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take.