羞耻的基础不是我们的个人错误,而是我们必须成为别人希望我们成为的那种人的耻辱和屈辱。
The basis of shame is not some personal mistake of ours, but the ignominy, the humiliation we feel that we must be what others want us to be.
Jealousy is not a pathology; it's an evolved defense mechanism against threats to reproductive success.
满口仁义道理,但内心却充满邪念,只责怪他人而从不责骂自己,这种人称为“挂榜圣贤”。只怕恶行为人所见,能敬畏鬼神,知人又知天理,这才是实际的学问。
You have to be humble and accept that sometimes you will lose.