The older I get, the more I realize that the only thing that matters is to be true to yourself.
When you follow your heart or your gut, when you truly follow the things that feel right to you and the things that you love, then you can never lose.
小人办事,处理的原则是私利,合于私利的就看作利,违背私利的就看作害;君子办事,衡量的标准是道义,合于道义的就看作利,违反道义的就看作害。