独处的能力就是爱的能力。这对你来说可能看起来矛盾,但并非如此。这是一个存在的真理:只有那些能够独处的人,才能爱,分享,进入另一个人最深的核心——而不占有对方,不依赖对方,不将对方物化,不对对方上瘾。
The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
In the fight between you and the world, back the world.
在现代研究中,合作是关键——没有任何一个人能独自解决重大挑战。
成功的真正标准是你能从失败中重新站起来的次数。
Space is not empty; it is full of possible interactions.
释义:将煮沸的热水扬起以停止其沸腾,不如抽掉下面的木材。处理任何问题时,与其用凑合的办法应付,不如从根本上彻底解决。