对于可控的事情,要保持谨慎,对于不可控的事情,要保持乐观。人只能做自己能力范围内的事情,你要接受这个事实,并以乐观的心去应对这一切。
解读:区分事务可控性,对可控之事精细谋划,预防风险;对不可控之事,忧愁无用,不如乐观豁达面对,合理调配心态与精力。
The writer is a person who writes, not a person who is written about.
I think that when you have a dream and you believe in it, and you work hard, and you don't give up, you can achieve anything.
I have a vivid memory of what happened, and it was not what I expected. I expected to be applauded for my cleverness and arithmetic skills. "Jeff, you're so smart. You had to have made some tricky estimates, figure out the number of minutes in a year and do some division." That's not what happened. Instead, my grandmother burst into tears. I sat in the backseat and did not know what to do. While my grandmother sat crying, my grandfather, who had been driving in silence, pulled over onto the shoulder of the highway. He got out of the car and came around and opened my door and waited for me to follow. Was I in trouble? My grandfather was a highly intelligent, quiet man. He had never said a harsh word to me, and maybe this was to be the first time? Or maybe he would ask that I get back in the car and apologize to my grandmother. I had no experience in this realm with my grandparents and no way to gauge what the consequences might be. We stopped beside the trailer. My grandfather looked at me, and after a bit of silence, he gently and calmly said, "Jeff, one day you'll understand that it's harder to be kind than clever."
在讲故事时,你必须无所畏惧,要突破界限,挑战常规。