伤害我们的并非我们的遭遇，而是我们对此的回应。
It's not what happens to us， but our response to what happens to us that hurts us.
Better never means better for everyone... It always means worse, for some.
If you do something once, people will call it an accident. If you do it twice, they call it a coincidence. But do it a third time and you've just proven a natural law.