大多数人不是为了理解而听，而是为了回答而听。
Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.
The best stories are those that ask questions, not answer them.
爱是理解并接受对方。
大脑在我们二十多岁时仍在形成，这意味着它更容易接受变化。