There is no despair so absolute as that which comes with the first moments of our first great sorrow, when we have not yet known what it is to have suffered and be healed, to have despaired and have recovered.

解放自己是一回事，拥有那个被解放的自我是另一回事。

Boys, you must strive to find your own voice. Because the longer you wait to begin, the less likely you are to find it at all. Thoreau said, "Most men lead lives of quiet desperation." Don't be resigned to that. Break out.

探求事理方法要缓缓，仔细品尝涵泳才能有所心得；欲念决断方法要果断，奋力果决才能自新。