Another thing I think should be avoided is extremely intense ideology because it cabbages up one's mind...when you're young it's easy to drift into royalties and when you announce that you're a loyal member...and you're gradually ruining your mind.
最近也是最远的是东西方向，最深也是最浅的是清澈的溪水。最高也是最明亮的是日月，最亲近也是最疏远的是夫妻关系。
The discipline of desire is the background of character.