解释：兄弟之间虽然会因谗言而起争执，但在遇到外人的侮辱时仍应一致对外。

In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?

The more you give, the more you get.

你赢得越多，就越想赢。

"Technique without vision is empty, vision without technique is blind."