When I got to 40 or so... I had the sense when I looked back over my life I would actually see a mess of decisions， a few of which I had thought about， some of which I had sort of stumbled on， and many that I had no control over whatsoever.
君子的话虽然少，但却真实；小人的话虽然多，但却虚假。点评：东汉著名学者王符曾言「大人不华，君子务实。」
积极情绪拓宽我们的意识，鼓励新颖、多样和探索性的思想和行动。随着时间的推移，这种拓宽的行为模式会建立技能和资源。
"The past is a place of reference, not a place of residence."
"The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is live inside that hope. Not admire it from a distance but live right in it, under its roof."
The only thing that can bring you happiness is yourself.