One thing you gotta know about me is I have absolutely no filter. I have no problem saying what the hell I think of someone.
That's exhilarating if you're doing well, and very crushing if you're not. It leads, in the worst cases -- in the analysis of a sociologist like Emil Durkheim -- it leads to increased rates of suicide. There are more suicides in developed, individualistic countries than in any other part of the world. And some of the reason for that is that people take what happens to them extremely personally -- they own their success, but they also own their failure.
我总是相信,如果你陷入困境,也许事情并不顺利,你会变得更强大。