The desires， and other passions of man， in themselves， are in his own power； his real difficulties are， to know when they are to be controlled， and when not.

Maybe every man has had two such women, at least two. Married to a red rose, over time, the red becomes a mosquito blood stain on the wall, while the white remains "moonlight before the bed"; married to a white rose, the white becomes a grain of sticky rice on the clothes, while the red remains a cinnabar mole on the heart.

建筑之美不在于装饰，而在于形式和空间的恰当性。

"Memory is what we thought we'd forgotten; it's what we have forgotten we've forgotten."

我总是被弱者吸引，因为我总觉得自己也是个弱者。