How often do we tell our own life story? How often do we adjust, embellish, make sly cuts? And the longer life goes on, the fewer are those around to challenge our account, to remind us that our life is not our life, merely the story we have told about our life.
The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.
心理学家必须研究心灵的实际状态，而非理想状态。
Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.