When checking references for a job applicant， employers may be reluctant or prohibited from saying anything negative， so leave or send a message that says， “Get back to me if you highly recommend this applicant as super great.” If they don’t reply take that as a negative.
做求职者的背景调查时，原雇主可能不愿意或被禁止说任何负面的东西，所以，应发送这样的调查信息："如果您强烈认为这位求职者极其出色，请给我回邮件。" 如果他们不回复，就当作是对候选人的否定。
我不喜欢我的声音。我不喜欢我的外表。我不喜欢我走路的样子。我不喜欢我的表演方式。我真的这样认为。所以，你看，我不喜欢我自己。
恐惧是人类如此强大的情感，以至于当我们允许它控制我们时，它会驱赶我们心中的同情。
"Sometimes, you have to be apart from people you love, but that doesn't make you love them any less. Sometimes, it makes you love them more."
The true meaning of life is to plant trees under whose shade you do not expect to sit.
