有时候，我们必须停止处理孩子的不良行为，而首先修复和孩子之间的关系。

周末参加一个朋友婚礼，发现新郎最近去了中央某监管结构的信息处，博士新娘回到新郎故乡担干部。他们已经两地分居5年了，为了珍惜机会还要继续分开。这样我是做不到的，也不赞同，人生在世就应该尽可能实现价值体验生活，为了静态的收益而去“忍”，这样损失很大。

张一鸣

我清晰地记得接下来发生了什么，而那是我意料之外的。我本期待着小聪明和算术技巧能赢得掌声，但那并没有发生。相反，我的祖母哭泣起来。我的祖父之前一直在默默开车，把车停在了路边，走下车来，打开了我的车门，等着我跟他下车。我惹麻烦了吗？我的祖父是一个智慧而安静的人。他从来没有对我说过严厉的话，难道这会是第一次？还是他会让我回到车上跟祖母道歉？我以前从未遇到过这种状况，因而也无从知晓会有什么后果发生。我们在房车旁停下来。祖父注视着我，沉默片刻，然后轻轻地、平静地说："杰夫，有一天你会明白，善良比聪明更难。"

I have a vivid memory of what happened， and it was not what I expected. I expected to be applauded for my cleverness and arithmetic skills. "Jeff， you're so smart. You had to have made some tricky estimates， figure out the number of minutes in a year and do some division." That's not what happened. Instead， my grandmother burst into tears. I sat in the backseat and did not know what to do. While my grandmother sat crying， my grandfather， who had been driving in silence， pulled over onto the shoulder of the highway. He got out of the car and came around and opened my door and waited for me to follow. Was I in trouble？ My grandfather was a highly intelligent， quiet man. He had never said a harsh word to me， and maybe this was to be the first time？ Or maybe he would ask that I get back in the car and apologize to my grandmother. I had no experience in this realm with my grandparents and no way to gauge what the consequences might be. We stopped beside the trailer. My grandfather looked at me， and after a bit of silence， he gently and calmly said， "Jeff， one day you'll understand that it's harder to be kind than clever."

杰夫·贝索斯

明确的爱，直接的厌恶，真诚的喜欢。站在太阳下的坦荡，大声无愧地称赞自己。

黄永玉

听到了，会忘掉；看到了，会记得；去做了，会了解。

哈维·艾克

像我这样的女人，总是以一个难题的形式出现在感情里。

韩寒

当我们怀疑所有事物的时候，我们也应该怀疑我们的怀疑。

大卫·休谟

贫穷不是缺少品格；贫穷是缺少机会。

佚名

鸟要挣脱出壳。蛋就是世界。人要诞于世上，就得摧毁这个世界。