It is the nature of the wise to resist pleasures, but the foolish to be a slave to them.

在文学中，就像在爱情中一样，我们会对别人所选择的东西感到惊讶。

海洋是我们星球上最大且最少被探索的部分，蕴藏着可能彻底改变我们对生命理解的秘密。

生活世界是我们日常生活中视为理所当然的隐含知识和无问题信念的背景。

And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.