不仅仅是编写代码；而是解决问题。

I try to listen to what the site is saying. I don't impose my will on it.

最好的领导者是那些倾听多于发言的人。

In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?

Words are the only bullets some of us have.