君主所凭借着驱使臣下的,只有尚贤一种方法；臣下用来侍奉君主的,也只有仁义一条途径。

人生的意义在于追求真理和美德。

In the end, I've found that it doesn't really matter who you marry. If you like them at the beginning, you probably won't like them at the end. And if you start off hating them, there's always the chance you'll end up thinking they're all right.