We do not own our memories; they own us.

The trick is to pay attention to what's happening around you and to keep writing.

解释：婚姻是难以预测的事情，既可能收获幸福，也可能招来祸患。婚姻事关人生的祸福，是家庭兴旺或衰败的根源，是人生十分重大的事情，好的婚姻给人以幸福，坏的婚姻给人以祸患。

The beauty of mathematics lies not only in its abstract elegance but also in its profound ability to model and solve real-world problems.

译文：一个家族的衰败没落，多半是因为子孙们的骄傲懒惰所致；社会风气的败坏，多是因为富贵者的奢华淫靡所致。赏析：一个家族要想兴旺发达，必然有良好的家风传承，子孙门的骄奢淫逸只会让家族走向没落。