换句话说,最好在你开口评论他人之前悬崖勒马,你很有可能不知道他人的真正价值,这是不可测的。于是,我们不该为人下定论,还有另一种慰藉,当我们想象人生中的失败,我们恐惧的原因并不只是失去收入,失去地位,我们害怕的是他人的评论和嘲笑,它的确存在。
过去从未消亡,它甚至从未过去。
People are unreasonable,illogical and self-centered;Love them anyway.If you are kind,people may accuse you of selfish,ulterior motives;Be kind anyway.If you are successful,you will win some false friends and some true enemies;Succeed anyway.The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow;Do good anyway.If you are honest and frank,people may cheat you;Be honest and frank anyway.People favor under dogs but follow only topdogs.Fight for a few underdogs anyway.What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight;Build anyway.If you find serenity and happiness,they may be jealous;Be happy anyway.People really need help but may attack you if you do help them.Help people anyway.Give the world the best you have,And it may never be enough;Give the world the best you have anyway.You see,in the final analysis,it is between you and God;It is never between you and them anyway.
Emotions are adaptations that have evolved to coordinate other psychological mechanisms in solving specific adaptive problems.