君子易事而难说也。说之不以道,不说也;及其使人也,器之。小人难事而易说也。说之虽不能道,说也;及其使人也,求备焉。
君子容易事奉,但要想讨得他的喜欢则很难。以不正当的方式讨他喜欢,他是不会喜欢的;但他在用人上,却能做到量才使用。小人难以事奉,但要想博得他的欢心则很容易。如果以不正当的手段讨他喜欢,他是会喜欢的;但当他用人时,则会求全责备。
Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.
A house is a machine for living, but it must also be a home.
Memory is not storage, but the sculptural art of neural pathways.
The only real prison is fear, and the only real freedom is freedom from fear.
The best way to be loved is to love.
The mirror is not just a surface, it's a dimension.
我是我所选择的,但我也是我所选择的之外。