Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.

I was born with an enormous need for affection, and a terrible need to give it.

韧性是通过克服挑战建立起来的。

If you control someone's interests, you control their expectations, and thus their actions.

我认为没有好的剧本，你无法拍出好电影。

思维法则的有效性不受其所应用对象性质的影响。