在这片未知的土地上,每一步都带来新的发现,而每一个发现都加深了神秘感。
君子会因人恭维赞美自己而疏远他,也会因对自己之言劝谏和他成为亲密的朋友。
使自己成为别人需要的人。
At a restaurant do you order what you know is great, or do you try something new? Do you make what you know will sell or try something new? Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met? The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive, but aim for 1/3.