你对别人越感兴趣，别人就对你越感兴趣。要想变得有趣，先有兴趣。

Maybe every man has had two such women, at least two. Married to a red rose, over time, the red becomes a mosquito blood stain on the wall, while the white remains "moonlight before the bed"; married to a white rose, the white becomes a grain of sticky rice on the clothes, while the red remains a cinnabar mole on the heart.

君子无所欲念，但气量宏大涵盖一切。而小人需求多，而志气狭隘。

I have held many things in my hands, and I have lost them all; but whatever I have placed in God's hands, that I still possess.

Sometimes you have to be a little bit naughty.