老虎间，还可以相互靠近，人即使很熟悉，还是不能真正亲近；在你面前议论别人是非的人，其实这种人就是一个搬弄是非的人。

Rule of 3 in conversation. To get to the real reason， ask a person to go deeper than what they just said. Then again， and once more. The third time’s answer is close to the truth.

You just stay away from me please.

Authenticity builds trust, and trust is the foundation of all great relationships.

隐私保护不是阻碍，而是信任的基础。