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If you plan on being anything less than you are capable of being, you will probably be unhappy all the days of your life.
People are just as wonderful as sunsets if you let them be. When I look at a sunset, I don't find myself saying, "Soften the orange a bit on the right hand corner." I don't try to control a sunset. I watch with awe as it unfolds.
The universe will change if you bring up your children, in behavioristic fashion, to be unafraid.