粗鲁
It’s thrilling to be extremely polite to rude strangers.
When someone is nasty， rude， hateful， or mean with you， pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.
Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength.
你沾沾自喜，别人乐于喜欢你；你攻击你周围的某个人，其他的人哈哈大笑；但倘若你解剖你自己的灵魂，所有的人就会嗷嗷叫。——作者原注
