The pen is mightier than the sword if the sword is very short, and the pen is very sharp.
I think that one should recognize reality even when one doesn’t like it; indeed, especially when one doesn’t like it.
在我早期的职业生涯中,我一直在问:我如何治疗、治愈或改变这个人?现在我会这样表述这个问题:我如何提供一种关系,让这个人可以利用它来实现自己的个人成长?
如果一个问题无法解决,那就扩大它的范围。
You have to reject one expression of the band first before you get to the next.