The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.
Another thing I think should be avoided is extremely intense ideology because it cabbages up one's mind...when you're young it's easy to drift into royalties and when you announce that you're a loyal member...and you're gradually ruining your mind.
尘土承受屈辱,却以鲜花来回报。