我不是受害者，我是幸存者。

每个故事至少有两面。

如果你想走得快，就一个人走。如果你想走得远，就一起走。

Transcend the individual, pursue the universal.

Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.

我写作是为了记住，不让过去溜走。