子贡问怎样实现仁，孔子说：“工人要做好工，必先磨好工具。生活在那里，就要追随那里的品德高尚的领导，结交那里的仁义之士。”

Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.

Jazz taught me freedom, but life taught me soul.

过去是一个异国他乡；他们在那里做事的方式不同。