谗言不会自己来，而是因为心中有猜疑才来；离间的话不会自己钻入，而是因为有了缝隙才来。

I don’t really have studios. I wander around around people’s attics, out in fields, in cellars, anyplace I find that invites me.

你可以是世界上最好、最多汁的桃子，但仍然会有人不喜欢桃子。

保持谦逊，保持渴望。

她们开心地为别人活着，没人留意她们所做出的牺牲。最后，炉上的小蟋蟀停止了甜美的歌唱，灿烂的阳光消逝，只留下了寂静和阴影。

History is not just about what happened, but about what is remembered and how.

孔子说：“不到苦思冥想时，不去提醒；不到欲说无语时，不去引导。不能举一例能理解三个类似的问题，就不要再教他了。”

The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.

You may not be able to alter reality, but you can alter your attitude towards it, and this, paradoxically, alters reality.

The only way to be happy is to be true to yourself.