圆融者无诡随之态，精细者无苛察之心，方正者无乖拂之失，沉默者无陰险之术，诚笃者无椎鲁之累，光明者无浅露之病，劲直者无径情之偏，执持者无拘泥之迹，敏炼者无轻浮之状。
性情圆融随和的人没有诡诈的神态，精明细心的人没有苛刻审查的心思，行为方正的人没有乖戾的行为，沉默的人没有陰险的手段，诚信笃实的人没有无能的牵累，光明正大的人没有肤浅的缺点，刚直的人没有性情上的偏失，果决的人没有拘泥的毛病，达练的人没有轻浮的外貌。
In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?
The more acute the experience, the less articulate its expression.
I don't let the world dictate my happiness.
