自己所具备的美德,可以希望别人也具有,但是不能强求别人具有;自己所没有的品德,可以规劝他人具有,却不能怪罪别人没有。因此待人宽容的人根据自己的心理来体察别人的感受,决不按照自己的情况来衡量别人。
Every patient’s story is a lesson in medicine.
A writer is someone who pays attention to the world.
All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does, that’s his.
If you don’t cannibalize yourself, someone else will.
一种心理状态的意义在于它所导致的结果。