I never make the mistake of arguing with people for whose opinions I have no respect.
Success is not accidental, it is the result of hard work.
父亲不慈爱,子女就不会孝顺;兄长不友爱,弟弟就不会恭敬;丈夫不仁义,妻子就不会顺从。
And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.