善于倾听是一种超能力。倾听你所爱之人的时候，多问问“还有什么？”，直到他们倾诉了所有。

We are lonesome animals. We spend all our life trying to be less lonesome. One of our ancient methods is to tell a story begging the listener to say — and to feel — 'Yes, that's the way it is, or at least that's the way I feel it.'