You can't change what's already happened, so focus on the present moment.
If one only wished to be happy, this could be easily accomplished; but we wish to be happier than other people, and this is always difficult, for we believe others to be happier than they are.
我不是来被喜欢的,我是来被尊重的。
The truth is rarely pure and never simple.
Emotions can capture attention automatically, demonstrating the close link between affective and cognitive systems.