写作是中立的、复合的、倾斜的空间，在那里我们的主体滑落，所有的身份都丢失了，从写作的身体的身份开始。

Not necessarily your mother, or indeed mine, but, as it were, the ideal mother, somebody who doesn't care about your achievements. Unfortunately, most people are not our mothers. Most people make a strict correlation between how much time, and if you like, love -- not romantic love, though that may be something -- but love in general, respect --they are willing to accord us, that will be strictly defined by our position in the social hierarchy.

我不必完美，我只需要做我自己。

幸福需要快乐和目标两者兼具——仅靠其中一项是不够的。