In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?

A novel should be a book of questions, not a book of answers.

想知道能否信任一个人，最好的方式就是去信任他。

我不是明星。我只是一个写歌和唱歌的女孩。