Happiness is the journey, not the destination.
We are all born with a certain package. We are who we are: where we were born, who we were born as, how we were raised. We're kind of stuck inside that person, and the purpose of civilization and growth is to be able to reach out and empathize a little bit with other people.
想治理国家,首先要先去治民。治民要先正己,做好治家的工作,把自家子弟教育好了,自己就会以身作则;只有做到先正自己,才能在治民方面起到带头作用。只有先做好自己,才能为别人带好头和榜样;只有先身体力行才能有好作用榜样示范作用。这才是真正有意义的治理国家的好方法。只有先立好自己的身才能对社会起到好的表率作用。
不好的事情总是发生得很快,而几乎所有好事都发生得很慢。