"You can love someone so much...But you can never love people as much as you can miss them."

A writer is a mirror reflecting the world's complexities.

The laws of behavior can be derived from basic physiological principles.

And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.

理解变化的唯一方法是投入其中，随之而动，并加入舞蹈。