写作就是直面过去的幽灵，并赋予它们在当下的声音。

You may not be able to alter reality, but you can alter your attitude towards it.

The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.

所有事情都是可能的，直到它们被证明是不可能的——即使不可能的事情，到目前为止也可能只是如此。